I don’t generally consider myself a whiner, but if there is one thing that makes me sigh and wish for better things, it is the size of my house. At 1000 square feet, two bedrooms and one bath for six people, it is just too small. I know I am not alone in feeling this. Pinterest knows I am not alone in this. Ikea knows I am not alone in this. I hardly know anyone who sighs and wishes their house was a little smaller.
On good days, I know there are advantages to the smallness. Less to clean, less to maintain, less to keep warm in the winter and cool in the summer. “Remember the pioneers!” I say. “Remember the sod houses and the one-room log cabins and the shanties on the prairie. Remember it could be worse.”
Still, I can’t help those days when I want to scream if I bump into one more crowded corner or have one more box from an over-full closet fall on my head. I get very tired of waking up from those dreams where I open a door I never noticed before and find a whole new wing to my house- empty, clean, uncluttered. I try not to think about the other big, empty house we still own, waiting to be finished…. some day.
And now I have another baby on the way. And she’s a girl. And it may be frivolous, but I have this longing to create a sweet and pretty little space for her- a place I can call “the girl’s room”. There would be flowers and ruffles involved.
I go through this cycle fairly frequently- wish, sigh, pity myself, then get sick of all that and do something about it. I think I am done moaning now, so on to the challenge! I thought I would blog about it, just to help with motivation and keep myself on track and out of the slough of despond. I have some time to complete this project since the baby will be in my room for a little while, but I am going to take advantage of that wonderful nesting instinct that tends to kick in about now and get started.
Here is what I am dealing with. I am showing you the four corners of boys room in all it’s daily glory- unmade beds, unfolded laundry, a floor that needs vacuuming and general clutteriness.
The closet. I can’t tell you how many times I have tried to reorganize this space. I have been thinking of trying to fit a crib etc. in this space, but I have no idea where I would put everything else.
Corner #2- The homeschool corner
Yes, my boys have a piano in their room. We used to have it in the living room, but it made everything so awkward and crowded that I moved it here, where it fits much better. I think it is going to have to stay. The top could use some rearranging, to say the least, and I am debating over the little white table and chairs. The boys do most of their school in the kitchen anyways.
The bunk bed. Thankfully all the boys still fit on this bed, and love sleeping together. There is literally no other space I can fit it, so it will be staying where it is, but hopefully straightened up a bit. Hah.
And last but not least, corner #4.
Currently we have a camping cot in this corner for extra sleeping space. My sister left it here when she moved and the boys love sleeping on it, but it isn’t absolutely necessary (besides which, it is just plain ugly.) We also have, as you can see, a deep freezer. Again, there really isn’t anywhere else this could go, and I really need the extra freezer space. The boys room does tend to become my all purpose room as well- the basket on the floor is some of my extra sewing stuff.
So there you have it. Is it possible to find a space for my little girl, and a girly space at that? Am I asking the impossible? Perhaps. But a girl’s gotta try. Suggestions would be welcome!